Rabbi Natan Noachovitch Iliaguyev leads the last active synagogue of the thirteen that functioned in Krasnaya Sloboda before Stalin exiled most of the rabbis to Siberia. Rabbi Natan's father, Rabbi Noach, quietly led the synagogue for forty years before his son inherited the job -- though neither of them was ever certified as a rabbi. Most could not openly attend the synagogue during Communist rule, but the community was permitted to hold its "Askara" memorial services each year to remember the anniversary of a loved one's death. The ceremonies were among the few opportunities to celebrate with the community in a Jewish context and communicate Jewish traditions. Even with religious freedom now restored, Askara remains a cherished custom in Krasnaya Sloboda. Ten men, a host of fruits and plenty of vodka complete the occasion. The men respond "Amen" to each of Rabbi Natan's memorial prayers and "L'Chaim!" ("To life!") as the son of the departed makes the first of many toasts remembering his father. Every blessing said at the memorial pays tribute to the deceased. Since each type of fruit has its own Hebrew blessing, each of the ten men says a blessing for each piece of fruit he eats, with "Amen" responses around the table. The meal is frequently interrupted, but everyone leaves feeling very good -- for 10 A.M. on a Wednesday.

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